"Perhaps I'm going about it the wrong way, but I feel that the best way 
to make women feel more included is to treat all people, male or female,
 with the same respect. I would find it humiliating and excluding if I 
was a woman and I found out that men were specifically giving me 
compliments because their "woman manual" told them that women need more 
compliments than men.&quot;<br>Mm, otherwise it seems like you are complementing just because they are female, which has a chance of looking like ulterior motives. I think more complementing of everyone would be a good thing in our community.<br>